WOMEN

15 Tips for Talking to Women And Attract Them Like Crazy

Many men are never taught how to talk to women. Because of this many guys go through life without the ability to attract a woman. Here are 15 tips to help make sure you aren’t making mistakes with the women you’d like to attract:

1. You should talk about “emotional” topics like childhood memories, future ambitions, or her passions. These conversation topics will open up her emotional floodgates.

2. Women want a guy who is not afraid to lead her. While talking to a woman take control of the conversation. Never wait for her to dictate what you’ll be talking about.

3. Pay attention to the non verbal cues a woman is giving you. If you’re standing too close to her, accidentally spitting when you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable in any way… she will send you hints. Pay attention to them.

4. Remember this motto “Fun not Funny.” Women are attracted to men who allow them to have fun. Don’t concentrate on having the funniest jokes. Concentrate on showing them the most excitement and enjoyment.

5. Tease women. One of the easiest ways to take a conversation to a fun and flirty level is to begin to tease women. Think back to your time on the playground. In the world of dating… what worked on the playground is effective all over again.

6. Get intimate with her. Women are turned on by men who are not afraid to take a conversation to a personal, intimate level.

7. Use things like “cold reads” to turn women on. Women love to hear opinions about themselves. Tell her what you observe about her.

8. Avoid complimenting a woman too much. Women are turned off by men who come across as “needy.” If you are complimenting a woman too much she will think you’re trying to impress her. Which will have the opposite effect.

9. If you want to know how to talk to women in a way that doesn’t bore them… Avoid asking too many “interview” style questions.  Instead state your opinion about things.

10. Remember: Statements over questions. Instead of saying “where did you grow up?” Say “You don’t look like you grew up around here.” This allows you to make observations about her and express your personality.

11. Don’t hide your identity. Don’t be afraid to talk about whatever you’re passionate about.

12. Never compliment her on her eyes, looks, or body.

13. Say something that lets her know that you view her in a “sexual” way. If you don’t, you run the risk of winding up in the “friend zone”.

14. Use conversation “games” to keep the mood fun and flirtatious. Games can be anything like “truth or dare” or to less extreme games like the “5 questions game”.

15. Don’t give away your hand so fast. Women like men who are a challenge. If you want to keep a woman’s interest she has to feel like she is slowly winning you over. If she thinks you’re too easy… she’ll lose interest.

The best way to think about how to talk to women is to think about what kind of fun, playful, and sexual conversation you would most enjoy. Talking to a woman doesn’t have to be difficult. You just need to be aware of what they are turned on by and what turns them off. Follow the list above and you’ll do just fine.

3 comments on “WOMEN

  1. 10 Tips for warming women girls up to you
    Men are never taught how to talk to women. Many guys go through life without this ability, and thus don’t know how to be more attractive to women. Tip s to avoid making common mistakes:
    1. Don’t compliment her on her eyes, looks, or body. Try to find things about her that she has worked on, that might have challenged her, and offer slight (not big) complements on her efforts in those areas. Work, skills, foreign languages, charity work, classes, etc
    2. Avoid complimenting a woman too much. Complimenting a woman too much makes her think you’re trying to impress her, which makes her think you are not as good as she is, and she will lose interest in you. Try to be equal or better than her in things that can strengthen your own confidence.
    3. Open ended statements over interview style questions. Avoid asking too many “interview” style questions. Instead state an opinion about things, making brief observations about neutral subject, that show your creative and cleverness, that express your personality. Do not be cynical, but find things that are unusual, ironic, or even goofy.
    4. Or sincere
    Not “ This math class is so hard” instead “ Is this math as tough for you, too? Maybe we could work on it together in the library, or after class.”
    Not “Do you want to go out? Instead “ There is this play ( name of play) this week-end, that has very good ( acting, set design, location). Would you be free to go this weekend, if I can arrange a ride?
    Or I got a gift certificate to Johnny Rockets for valentines, would you like to have lunch there, on me, this week-end?
    Not “Where did you grow up?” Say “You don’t look like you grew up around here.”

    5. Don’t bore them… Remember this motto “Fun, not Funny.” Women are attracted to men who share a sense of fun. Don’t worry about having the funniest jokes, just short wry observations about the world you are in. Concentrate on showing them a relaxed and poised energy, not too busy or stressful
    6. Women want a guy who is not afraid to lead her. While talking to a woman, gently steer and control the conversation. Practice a dozen topics at home at night, and write out a small cue card to carry with you. Before you meet someone, review three or four topics you can talk about: School, classes, upcoming events, week-end plans, Complements on their sweather, jacket, shoes, or back pack, etc. Past events, tests, unusual things.
    7. Pay attention to the non verbal cues a woman is giving you. If you’re standing too close to her, accidentally spitting when you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable in any way… she will send you hints. Pay attention to them.
    8. After things are warmed up a bit, you can talk about “emotional” topics like future ambitions, or things she is interested in. These conversation topics will open up her emotional floodgates.
    9. Tease women. One of the easiest ways to take a conversation to a fun and flirty level is to begin to tease women. Think back to your time on the playground. In the world of dating… what worked on the playground is effective all over again. Get intimate with her. Women are turned on by men who are not afraid to take a conversation to a personal, intimate level. Use words that could be used in a sensual way, things that lets her know that you view her as a possible girlfriend, to avoid the risk of winding up in the “friend zone”.
    10. Don’t give away your hand so fast. Women like men who are a challenge. If you want to keep a woman’s interest she has to feel like she is slowly winning you over. If she thinks you’re too easy… she’ll lose interest.
    Remember that girls & women may be just as insecure as you are, but will retreat like a scared rabbit, if you come on too strong, forget their sensitive side, or treat them as just one of the guys. It only takes one out of ten, so be casual about the first few, and allow them room to say no, or move away. It’s really a numbers game, and by the time you have tried your approach 4-5 times, it will get easier and be more successful. Believe me, you will never, ever, have to get as high as ten tries before finding a new good girlfriend. But don’t try this first on the most desirable girl, try it out on a nice 2nd or 3rd choice, and take your time to work your way up.

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